Nervousness, disappointment, likeness, appreciation, jealousy, joy, ecstasy. anxiousness.... But in the end, for thousand years, one thing hasn't changed is that we are basically still animals. Doesn't matter that you can write poems or sing songs to beautify that basic desire. You have to be able to see, touch, fondle, caress, kiss, and make love to really love someone. What I am trying to say is that you need to do things with him, sharing time enjoying things together.