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Many women are abused by the man they love. In Canada, about 1 in 8 woman is abused by her husband, boyfriend or partner. Wife abuse is a problem in Canada and countries around the world. Abused women and their husband come from every background. They may be rich, middle class or poor. They may have a lot of education or very little. They are of every culture and religion.
许多的女人被爱她们的男人虐待。在加拿大，大约有1/8的女人被她们的丈夫，男友，同居伴侣所虐待。全世界包括加拿大， 妻子虐待都是一个问题。 被虐待的女性和她们的丈夫，来自各种背景。他们可能是富裕的，中产阶级，或贫穷的。他们可能受过很多教育，或者只有一点点。他们来自各种文化与信仰。
Many people think wife abuse is a private family problem. It is not. Every woman has the right to be safe. There are laws to protect her. A man does not have the right to hit his wife, girlfriend or partner. This is assault. Assault is a crime. The police can arrest the man. He could be fined or go to jail. Abused woman can change their situation. There are places and people who can help.
许多的人们认为妻子虐待是一个私人家庭问题。它不是的。每个女人都有权力去保持自己安全。有法律可以保护她们。任何一个男人都没有权利去打他的妻子，女友，同居伴侣。这是一种人身侵犯。警察可以逮捕这个男人。他也许会没事或去监狱。被虐待的女性能改变她们的状况。
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Abused woman can change their situation. There are placesand people who can help.
1. Wife Abuse – Supplement of the Ontario Times
Jenny Vane, NLOC Consultant
77 Bloor Street West, 5th floor
Toronto, ON,M7A 2R9
电话：416-314-7509
2. Arlene Brazean, Community Legal Worker
416-441-1764 ext. 24
3. Assaulted Women Helpline （ We offer ourservices in up to 154 languages. ）
1-866-863-0511
416-863-0511
www.awhl.org
被虐待的女性能改变她们的状况。这里有些地址和人员能帮助她们。
1．妻子虐待--- 求助中心
珍妮 王，顾问
77 号 Bloor 街西，5楼
多伦多，安省，邮编 M7A 2R9
电话：416-314-7509
2．艾伦 布朗泽，
社区法律工作人员
电话：416-441-1764 转24
3．被人身侵犯的女性求助中心 (我们提供多达154种语言服务)
电话：1-866-863-0511
416-863-0511
网址：www.awhl.org
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What are some different type of abuse?
1. Physical Abuse
* hit, beat, push， pull
* kick, slap, punch, cut
* choke, break
* kill
2. Sexual Abuse
* force her to have sex when she doesn't want to = rape
* force her to do things she doesn't like.
3. Financial Abuse
* take her pay
* give her little money
* not let her work
4. Emotional Abuse
* hurt someone's feelings
* make someone's feel afraid, depressed, frustrated, worthless
* threaten
* control
* destroy
* make her think she's crazy
* name calling
* get angry if she see friends or family
* check her email or phone
有哪些不同类型的虐待？
1. 身体的虐待
* 碰撞，敲打，推，拉
* 踢，掌掴，拳击，咬
* 掐喉，打破头
* 杀害
2. 性的虐待
* 强迫她发生性关系，当她不愿意的时候。（ = 强暴 ）
* 强迫她做她不喜欢的事情。
3. 经济的虐待
* 拿走她的薪资
* 给她很少的钱
* 不让她去工作
4. 感情的虐待
* 伤害她的感觉
* 让她感觉害怕。 使她忧郁，沮丧。 让她觉得自己是无用的。
* 恐吓威胁
* 控制
* 意志摧毁
* 令她认为，她自己是疯了。
* 骂她
* 当他知道她去见她的朋友和亲人，他就发怒。
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